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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 17.06.2025 09:38

How does one succeed in life?

Does not procrastinate.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Can you turn 150 pages into a 5 minute presentation before a meeting?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Why are men ridiculously delusional in the women they want/approach? I'm not a troll. This is a real question. Why does a fat, pot bellied, unkempt, balding, stupid (ergo poor) man, tell a woman above his league that she isn't hot enough for him?

Ask yourself:

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

That's it for today.

How can I decorate my house creatively?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

How do I change a truck’s engine oil?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Making more friends is a goal.

Ok, so this is a question seeking an answer to clear up whatever gymnastics are in my head. I'm a moderately attractive guy, sincere heart, genuinely looking to love another, established. Why don't women that I'm attracted to, want me back?

What I need from you?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Does meth make women super horny like it does men?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

If you caught a shoplifter at your yard sale, how would you handle it?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

What are mean nicknames to call my sister? She is always so mean to me.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

What are some ways to cope with paranoid thoughts about being gangstalked or targeted individuals?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

How do I get access to a dog for bestiality? I am currently unable to adopt a dog, but I want to know if there are still ways to have sex with one without getting caught.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Do not set goals—set systems.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.